Being a father of (soon to be) two daughters, my heart sank as I read this article. It sank, partly because it is something that I have been saying and witnessing for years during my time as a youth pastor, and partly because this brings validation to my thinking. For the first time in history, a generation is growing up in a world where they can quantify their social status, through likes, retweets, comments, hearts, shares, friends, followers, etc. Although I am a proponent of social media, we cannot avoid the effects it is having on young people and more specifically, as Nancy Jo Sales, points out, on girls. Sales writes a brief but direct article sharing her experience researching a book on this very topic. I want to share one quote from the article that articulates that the concern is not just with young people. "Kids today," writes Sales, "are often accused of being narcissistic, but they may be learning their exhibitionists ways from their parents. Accompanying the boom in selfie culture is a rise in competitive spirit, as well as a disturbing trend of sexualization. Likes, hearts, swipes - validation is only a tap away. And one of the easiest ways to get that validation is by looking hot. Sex sells, whether you're 13 or 35."